Some of my favorite memories, sights and smells come from fall time. Our October wedding. The crispness of the air. The leaves changing color. And the crop harvest.
But one of my favorite family traditions is visiting a local apple orchard. My family would drive just across the border to Wisconsin to partake in the 10-or-so orchards all along one main road. We’d take the annual “face in the hole” photo (included in this post) and try to find the best deals on delicious apples. We’d also pick up everything else “apples,” from cider donuts to pies and cider.
Although we didn’t pick our own produce at the orchards and I grew up on a farm, I think it’s important to see the trees and where food comes from. It doesn’t magically appear on a grocery shelf.
We started visiting Geisler Farms in Central Iowa a couple of years ago. We love the kids’ activities, including the hay ride, and plan to go again this fall. (Also, it’s inexpensive at only $5!)
Do you have any fall traditions?
After two kids, I get asked a lot from my friends and family members advice on what to get – and what not to get – when it comes to babies. And here’s my list.
Anything you would add?
- Changing table
- Good breast pump – Pump in Style by Medela. Insurance usually covers this.
- Breast milk storage bags
- Rocking chair
- Car seat
- Crib, crib sheets (3-4), waterproof pad, mattress
- Baby carrier/wrap. We like K’tan.
- Nursing cover
- Bibs, spoons, cups, bowls, burp cloths (6-12)
- Play mat
- Baby tub
- Bottle drying rack, bottle brush
- Bottles – several brands to see what baby likes. Don’t buy a bunch of the same kind before Baby is here. We bought all Dr Brown’s and Abigail hated them. She liked the wider nipple of the Avent we borrowed from a friend since it resembles Mom more.
- Sound machine
- Rock ‘n Play sleeper
- Travel crib
- Car sunshade, car seat toys
- Onesies, pants, socks, hats, PJs, hats, mittens for scratching
- Baby monitor
- Diaper genie for poopy diapers. Use regular trash for wet ones.
- Highchairs – Bumbo seat and another that attaches to table. Wooden ones are bulky.
- Bath towels, washcloths, baby shampoo/wash, fun bath toys
- Toys, books
- Outlet covers, thermometer, teething toys
- Infant clothes hangers
- Baby gate
- Nail clippers
- Diapers and wipes. We like Luvs diapers and Pampers sensitive wipes.
- Snotsucker Nosefrida
- Footrest for nursing
- Photo albums/frames (optional)
- To get yourself – phone app – babyloggy $4 to track diapers, feeding, sleep, etc.
- Swing – my kids hated it and it takes up a lot of room
- Bouncer – my kids hated it and it takes up a lot of room
- Wipe warmer
- PJs with snaps (ZIP only!). Snaps are rough with a screaming baby in the middle of the night to change its diaper.
- Two piece outfits. The shirts ride up too much.
- Crib bumper. SIDS risk.
- Bottle sterilizer. Use boiling water in a pot.
- Pacifier wipes – wasteful
- Pack n Play. Use your Rock n Play.
- Bath thermometer (hot duck)
- Shoes – they won’t wear them
- Expensive clothes – they will stain and won’t wear them long
- Diaper stacker
- Baby food processor. Use a regular food processor.
- Dishwasher basket for bottle parts – you’ll be handwashing enough
- Baby detergent. Use any free and clear detergent.
- Diaper bag – use a messenger bag with just the essentials
I have a few friends expecting babies later this year, so I decided to write down some of the tips I’ve given them along the way. It’s not all-inclusive, but what would you add?
- Take prenatal vitamins
- Find clothes – try consignment or Belly Band
- Find OB
- Learn foods to avoid while pregnant – soft cheese, deli meat, etc.
- Download pregnancy app, like BabyCenter
- Get morning sickness relief – Altoids, hard candies, etc.
Compile list of questions for your first visit
- Find a new bra – softer, bigger size
- Review company leave policy
- Think about childcare. In centers, you’ll want to notify them right away when you’re pregnant to get on the waiting list.
- You’ll be TIRED!
- You will feel your best this trimester. Make it count!
- Research and interview pediatricians. Ask friends and neighbors. You’ll need to give this information to the hospital before giving birth, as you’ll have a baby check-up just a few days after the baby arrives.
- Start thinking about baby names
- Start sleeping on your left side
- Share news with family, friends and boss
- Take baby bump photos
- Plan baby room and gear
- Try prenatal yoga
- Decide if you’ll find out the gender
- Start baby registry
- Book childbirth class
- Use saline spray/humidifier for congestion. You might start snoring!
- Tackle pending home projects – get as organized as possible!
- Research nursing bras – I liked Bravado!
- Do any last-minute travel.
- Cook and freeze meals
- Baby proof home
- Shop for announcements, get stamps, etc.
- Pack hospital bags
- Buy car seat, stroller, etc. you didn’t get at your shower
- Prep baby kit – Tylenol, nail clippers, diaper rash cream, etc.
- Get haircut
- Plan for pets/other kids while in labor
- Clean out car to make room for baby
- Install car seat
- Buy postpartum items – pads, etc.
- Finish birth plan
- Stock up on diapers
- Wash baby clothes and bedding. Stock baby’s room.
- Finalize baby names
- Think about potential Godparents
- Wrap up at work – leave notes for fill-in
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I remember my parents attending their class reunions and coming home to report how people have changed jobs, added to their families, etc. My younger brother had a high school class reunion last year, and it doesn’t sound like they had a great turnout.
So it begs the question: with social media such as Facebook, are class reunions a thing of the past? Would people be on their phones the whole time anyway updating their statuses and adding photos online? Do we know too much about people online to make meeting in person something to look forward to?
It’s sad, really, because I think the art of person-to-person communication is getting lost. And I wonder if our future generations will know how to conduct themselves in face-to-face interviews because they’ve been behind a screen for so many years.
Don’t get me wrong; I love social media technology and use it daily. But there are so many things that get lost in translation in the written word.
Do you still have high school class reunions?
After checking out prices online for tulle crib skirts ($40?! No, thanks.), I decided to make my own. And after scouring Pinterest for instructions, I hobbled through some vague directions, but made it through. Here’s the way I put mine together:
- For a toddler bed or crib, get a fitted sheet and cut off the “fitted part” so it’s flat.
- Measure the distance from the floor to where the skirt will start, double it, then add two inches. That’s how much tulle you’ll need. My strips were two inches wide.
- Take the crib skirt, measure in about 1 1/2″ from the edge, then cut two slits 1″ long and 1″ apart, one on top of the other, and all the way down.
- Take your strips of tulle, one at a time, and fold in half then feed the loop you formed through the slits. Put the two loose ends through the loop and pull. See photos below.
- Continue this pattern on three of the four sides. (Our crib is against a wall so I didn’t do that side since you won’t see it.)
- Then place under the mattress.
Photo credit to … someone else. She isn’t on Pinterest anymore, but I’d already saved her instructions and photos.